From "Memoirs of an Ordinary Pastor" - by D.A. Carson

1. There is always more pastoral work to be done, so remember that we serve under a gospel of grace.
2. As Marg Carson said, “Work hard and play hard, but never confuse the two.”
3. When other ministers in your sphere are working effectively and fruitfully, learn what you can, but keep envy at bay with rejoicing.
4. If you have a tender conscience, rejoice because that is a great gift. But be sure to combine that gift with a deep understanding of the limitless dimensions of the love of God.
5. No matter what is going on, never ignore your wife and children.
6. When change is necessary, pray and plan carefully, and act.
7. Be serious in working out what it means to be content in your busy ministry life.
8. Know yourself, and play to your strengths.
9. Fill your life regularly and deeply with the knowledge and love of God so that when the dark times come, the call to God is one of a cry for help rather than a judgemental curse.